I have always found the notion of toilet training a toddler to be a bit much. I didn't feel right about pushing my girls to do something I felt would eventually come naturally. At three years old, both my girls were potty trained ... not because I read books and raced them to the porcelain each time I suspected they should go. They knew what the potty was for.
They knew when they had to go. They'd figure it out on their own! Well, by golly, they did! Sure, we went a little stupid each time they were successful users of the throne and they got rewards and accolades just like the kids who were put through a regimen of potty training tactics fit for Patton's soldiers. But we never made it a big issue in our house and, consequently, it never became an issue. I've known parents who felt they had to potty train their babies at two or even younger to enroll them in preschool. We, instead, found a great preschool that accepted kids in diapers.
Their philosophy was that the children who were still in diapers would naturally learn to go on the potty by watching the other kids go. I suppose it worked. I never really gave it much thought. Potty eureka just sort of happened around here on its own. I've heard that little girls are easier to potty train than little boys.
Any readers out there care to comment? We'd love to hear from you, especially if you've trained both a boy and a girl. As for bed wetting after four or five years of age, some kids just can't help wetting the bed at night. It seems these precious ones are not emotionally unstable, torn apart by low self-esteem or any other old-wives-tale rationale. They simply do not have the capacity to hold their urine and they are deeper sleepers than most. If you have a child who cannot stay dry at night, there is a remedy.
Please talk to your child's pediatrician..
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Some children practically potty train themselves, while others struggle and resist against the potty. Potty training should never turn into the battle of the wills. If it does, both you and your child will loose. When dealing with strong-willed child, it's best to turn potty training into a game. Use the following suggestions to make potty training fun and exciting for you and your child:Musical Potty Chairs - Musical potty chairs, like the Tinkle Toonz, use positive reinforcement by playing a tune to reward your child for a job well done.Potty Training Dolls - Dr.
Phil recommends that parents purchase an anatomically correct drink & wet doll for potty training. Both the Corolle and Aquini potty training dolls can be used with Dr. Phil's method. By helping your child teach the doll to use the potty, your child will learn without realizing it.Potty Training Charts & Stickers - Potty training charts and stickers can go a long way to motivate your child to use the potty. At first...
Potty Training: Battle of the Wills
Puppy Basics: Potty-Training, Reprimanding, and Rewards...
Potty Training Your Puppy:Make sure you feed your dog at regular times every day as this makes bathroom breaks regular as well. Feed your puppy 2-3 times a day. As soon as he is finished eating, take him to a grassy "potty area". Speak the words "go potty" or "go in the grass" before and while he is eliminating. Be sure to praise him when he is done.
What you are doing is building word associations with the dog that will allow you to encourage his potty activity on command. This comes in handy when you and your dog are at unusual locations and at pit stops during long haul travel. It also saves you from cleaning unwanted fecal material off the carpet at home.It is a good idea to train your puppy to use a place where you can easily clean up and dispose of the droppings into the sewer. This is because worms that infect dogs and make them sick get spread around through the eggs or larvae found in the feces. Some, like the roundworm, can also infect children.Reprimanding Your Puppy:Talk...
Puppy Basics: Potty-Training, Reprimanding, and Rewards...
New Guide Guarantees Parents Can Potty Train Their Kids in 48 Hours or Less Stress-Free
Summerville, SC (ContentDesk) November 17, 2005 -- Its an old dilemma - potty training a toddler can be a stressful and drawn-out experience for parents and kids.
Authors Mary E. Eule and David A. Scarborough of Ask the Potty Trainers.com have written an e-book that helps parents guide their little one through this rite of passage quickly, and most importantly, joyfully. Now parents can log onto their website: www.AskThePottyTrainers.com and download the guide that guarantees results in less than 48 hours.
The book The Official BRIEF" Potty Training Guide covers everything a parent needs including: an overview; supply list; tips; step-by-step instructions; answers to frequently asked questions and even a potty diploma.
Unlike other methods, BRIEFS" does not require expensive equipment or emotionally risky techniques.Co-Author Mary Eule: Were in contact...
Potty Training Techniques That Don't Work
Your attitude and actions have a huge impact on your child's potty training success. The following potty training techniques don't work and should never be done:Punishing your child for accidentsMaking your child wear soiled diapers or underwearMaking your child sit on the potty for more than 5 to 10 minutes at a timeMaking your child "hold it" if he or she needs to goMaking your child sit on the potty when he or she is cryingTry to make potty training fun and exciting for your child. Positive reinforcement generates better results than negative reinforcement. Browse our selection of potty training products to choose the right product to use with your chosen potty training technique.Copyright ? 2004 ZIP Baby. All Rights Reserved..
Danna Henderson started ZIP Baby in order to provide parents with comprehensive potty training information as well as a large variety of potty training products. For more information about potty training, visit Potty... Potty Training Techniques That Don't Work
Parenting Univeristy: Potty Training 101
When your child shows signs of potty training readiness, it's time to purchase some essential potty training items. There are many new products which can help to make potty training quick and easy for both you and your child. We have researched all of the latest and most effective potty training products. Here, you'll find a number of new potty training aids, such as the Tinkle Toonz musical potty or the anatomically correct drink & wet dolls that can be used with Dr. Phil's potty training method.
Be sure and browse through our selection of 2004 potty training books and DVDs, which provide a great introduction for both parents and children.The important thing is to begin potty training with the right training products and information, to ensure your child has a positive experience from beginning to end. Don't wait until you and your child are frustrated to buy a fun musical potty chair or read a bedtime potty training book.After you have purchased the potty training products,...
Parenting Univeristy: Potty Training 101
Potty Training Techniques That Don't Work
Your attitude and actions have a huge impact on your child's potty training success. The following potty training techniques don't work and should never be done:
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When Not To Begin Potty Training
Potty training can be a stressful experience for you and your child. It's best to start potty training when your child has an established daily routine and is not dealing with any additional stress. Potty training should be the only major change in your child's life. If your child is showing signs of potty training readiness, ask yourself if any of the following situations exist:New baby - Although the thought of double diaper duty may be overwhelming, your child needs time to adapt to the new baby before you begin potty training. Divorce or Separation - Divorce or separation is always stressful for children.
Your child may be living in two different homes or under two separate sets of rules. When things calm down, share your potty training plan so that you are both aware of the other person's plan and can work together for the benefit of your child.New daycare/baby sitter - If your child has recently switched day cares or baby-sitters, wait a couple of weeks/months (depending...
When Not To Begin Potty Training
Potty Training: Battle of the Wills
Some children practically potty train themselves, while others struggle and resist against the potty. Potty training should never turn into the battle of the wills. If it does, both you and your child will loose. When dealing with strong-willed child, it's best to turn potty training into a game. Use the following suggestions to make potty training fun and exciting for you and your child:Musical Potty Chairs - Musical potty chairs, like the Tinkle Toonz, use positive reinforcement by playing a tune to reward your child for a job well done.Potty Training Dolls - Dr.
Phil recommends that parents purchase an anatomically correct drink & wet doll for potty training. Both the Corolle and Aquini potty training dolls can be used with Dr. Phil's method. By helping your child teach the doll to use the potty, your child will learn without realizing it.Potty Training Charts & Stickers - Potty training charts and stickers can go a long way to motivate your child to use the potty. At first...
Potty Training: Battle of the Wills